How often should you forgive someone for hurting you? At what point should you cut ties?

Last Updated: 02.07.2025 05:01

How often should you forgive someone for hurting you? At what point should you cut ties?

The Stoics would say that we cannot control the actions of others,

Your act of abondening is purely self care and forgiving in this case doesn't mean remaining in contact too.

You are not abandoning anyone you’ are simply protecting your own harmony.

To a flat Earther, what's wrong with the idea that gravity is simply a force inherent to space which operates only in one dimension? Why do they go further and try to deny gravity rather than just saying it's different than physicists claim?

but

As ,Seneca very rightly told us

Choose to surround yourself with peace, not pain, and trust that the right relationships will align with your path.

What is the reason behind some people referring to themselves as "nice guys" instead of simply being nice?

As for cutting ties, I always remind myself that it is wise to assess the situation and act according to reason, not emotion.

You can forgive and for self care can always cut ties.

I feel Forgiveness is not about letting someone off the hook it is about releasing yourself from the chains of resentment.

Can they start feeding only one meal to prisoners on death row or those doing a life sentence? Because only then will it be real punishment. If they want extra food they can work or pay from their own pocket.

Be blessed

👉🔹If a relationship no longer contributes to your growth or inner tranquility, you are clear that the act on other,s part was not inadvertant instead intentional then it is perfectly rational to step away.

⭐ 'The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.

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Ultimately, as Marcus Aurelius said,

we can control our response. Holding onto anger only harms you, so forgiveness becomes an act of reclaiming your own peace.